Be you (and then some)!

A couple of weeks ago, I received a text from a former USC student whom I absolutely adore. It read, "Can I call you quickly?"

We've known each other for about 6 years and like many of my past students and clients, we are close. So close, in fact, a couple of years ago he sent me a Mother's Day card for being his "Hollywood Mom." There is no greater compliment to a teacher than having a past student think of you as a mother figure.

Well, as any mother knows, a text for a "quick call" is usually code for "I have something big to talk to you about, but I want to keep it casual, not freak you out and I need your undivided attention for at least 30 mins." LOL. Fortunately I had time and called him.

Over the next hour he shared with me a very personal part of his life. I was honored he wanted to share this with me but what moved me so deeply is why he felt it was important to tell me.

He said, "You don't just support my career, you support my existence." I literally started sobbing. I was so deeply touched because it was absolutely true.

Not only true for him, but for all of you.

Your careers are very important, but who you are and how you show up in the world matters first. In fact, I don't think a successful career can really take shape until you know yourself. When you know yourself, you make better choices.

I'm happy to report this past student's life is thriving! He had the courage to be himself and move out of LA. Although that might seem counter intuitive, his creative career has never been hotter!

I think it takes a lot of courage to be authentic and I hope you have courage today and every day to keep being YOU, and then some!